I would not play this for my son and his friends on a "play date" and walk away. And finally, when I was young my mother watched edgy movies with me, because they prompted questions and conversations and I think it was good for me. I asked her if she had any thoughts in hindsight and she had no regrets at seeing it at such a young age. She was 10 when she first saw it and she always loved it. This was my little sister's favorite movie when it first came out back in the 80s. I want them to know that boobs and "being hot" are not requirements for intimacy, love, and happiness and lots of different things can make a person sexy (including being a good dancer!) I also like that the protaganist isn't the prettiest girl in the room and doesn't have the biggest breasts yet there is love and connection and intimacy (a contrast to most sexual images found online). We can use the show to discuss why they shouldn't have unprotected sex when they are older. I think this movie is cheezy but it shows themes of love, family, understanding, communication, emotions and growth. I would like to show him movies that show intimacy and love so that those are his first ideas about sex. We just busted one of our 12-year olds looking at inappropriate images of girls in bikinis online (he couldn't get to the naked ones due to porn blockers) so he's obviously getting interested in sexy subjects. I am personally uncomfortable showing them this movie because of some of the themes discussed by other parents (prostitution, abortion, sexy dancing) BUT I'M GOING TO SHOW IT TO THEM because. We are a blended family with two 12-year old boys (both 12 going onto 13).
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